I haven't ever met anyone else with this problem. And I was even sure I didn't have to worry anymore.

summarizing for people not aware:( the stalker )
I'm asking because today I saw him in my block again. he was sitting on my lawn and when I finally got close and took my keys out of my bag he wasn't there anymore, my neighbor said he's been there the entire day and now I'm freaked out.

Is there a way to deal with this? that doesn't includes police? (because seriously, I've been said that unless he attempts to get into my house or tries to hurt me they can't help.) you think direct violence would work?